how to be best

7 Tips on how to be best of everything you do

I love to listen motivational talks and read books on personal developments by people like Gabrielle Bernstein, Anthony Robbins, Dr. Deepak Chopra, Ziglar. From all these books & lectures I found all of them are talking about 7 key habits on how to be the best of everything we do.

And even these 7 habits make great entrepreneurs like Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg, Marissa Mayer, Jack Dorsey or players like Sachin Tendulkar tick.

Here are the 7 habits which can make you best and help you to live your best life.

1. Follow your passion. Life’s too short to spend it doing something you don’t love so follow whatever inspires you. This strong desire will help you to work relentlessly to achieve, to make things happen, to do great things and live your best life.
 

how to be best of everything

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it will achieve.” Napoleon Hill


2. Excellence at what you do should be your focus. You need to prioritize your activity for uninterrupted focus. To be excellent you need to practice as there is no alternative to practice.

"Once you say you are going to settle for second, that’s what happens to you in life.” – John F. Kennedy

3. You must stay positive in all situations. You must be extremely self-confident when it comes to trusting your own instincts.This is probably best live advice.

4. Place yourself in the face of uncertainty. Whenever you face something that makes you to feel uncomfortable or uncertain, it’s an indicator that there are growth opportunities inside you. 

"Talents are best nurtured in solitude; character is best formed in the stormy billows of the world." – Goethe

5. Do introspection. Whenever you introspect on your own thoughts and actions, you gain a greater sense of clarity about yourself and the world around you. Introspection actually answer your question on "how to live your best life?"

6. Detach yourself from material possessions. There is nothing permanent in this world and this includes money, material possessions, success, circumstances and the outcome of different situations. Many of life’s disappointments and miseries come from attaching yourself to particular outcomes. I found detachment sometimes actually helps you to become a better problem solver.

7. Always formulate actionable Step and you should devise your own process to achieve what you want.You can make plan for your business or for improvement of  communication problems in relationships.

Remember that you need not to be the best at world but you need to be at your best.

In today’s over-crowded marketplace where everyone is screaming for attention and an audience, there is one thing that overwhelms and dominates – and that is EXCELLENCE. Excellence always stands out … and the beauty is it can be a journey and a destination.

In summary, you need to be able along with positive intent to be the best you can be. You need to practice. Follow these tips to have best careers for the future or be best in relationships. You may read my article on how to be get a promotion at work to know more on how to be successful at career.

Let’s go back to Malcolm Gladwell’s book, “Outliers” for a second. To guarantee being among the best in the world at something you pretty much need 10,000 hours of practice as per his “10,000 hour rule”. He cites the Beatles, Bobby Fischer as an example.

“Some people dream of Success, while others wake up early and work hard at it.”

So what have you said to yourself that you will be, and what are you doing about it? - discuss how you want to use these tips for your career or building a healthy relationship.  

Author - Rita is relationship expert and she is author of best selling book "how to save your relationship". 

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