Top 7 Career lessons

career lessons

1. Learn to look impeccable, even in the midst of chaos. Remember you need to accept short term pain for long term gain

2. Trust your team irrespective of their views on your decision. Don’t always assume your first impressions are correct, and make it a point to get to know your colleagues’ true natures.

3. Always be part of team. Never be isolated even though you need to  stand up for what you want

4. Use anger for a purpose. This is powerful weapon if you use it rarely & judiciously.

5. No body is your permanent friend or enemy. Think how to convert problem into solutions. Just think how Mr. Bond escaped from a crocodile-infested lagoon in the Louisiana backwaters in Live and Let Die by just running along the animals’ backs to get to safety.

6. There are many ways of going about making a point and being heard without affecting your ongoing personal brand. Protect your personal brand.

7. The secret of success is love what you do and be sincere to do it.It is necessary for transforming your desperation into inspiration

All these tips will help you to form the correct attitude which is necessary to achieve all personal and professional goals. Click the link to know more on habits of successful people.

You may read Joanna Lumley's career lessons for life at BBC news where she told following as instant career guide to career success -"Say 'yes', be on time, look gorgeous, show willing, be savagely polite," 

7 success habits

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit. ~ Aristotle ~

1. Fail often, fail fast, fail cheap. Failures are the pillar of success

2. Make an efficient network who can help you. Maintain your relationship even though there is disagreement.

3. Be healthy to be energetic

4. Learn to negotiate for your success. Use positive and negative reinforcement based on situation.

success habits

5. Ensure you learn something new every month. Review your work and do self introspection everyday. This will help you to build a character.

6.Concentrate on your area of focus. I found this work better setting a single goal.

7. Take decision & take action. Avoid analysis paralysis syndrome.

Target to improve yourself 1% every week in your area of focus. Life follows the same laws as physics. It is all about momentum. So to succeed, you need to start things moving.

We are a product of what we repeatedly do.So, start work to build habit for success. Your motivation will go up with every small success.

A habit cannot be tossed out the window; it must be coaxed down the stairs a step at a time.

~ Mark Twain ~

Discover 7 Habits For Happiness

“Some people CHASE happiness. And some people CHOOSE happiness…” – Robert Holden

We are responsible for our own happiness. It’s nobody’s job to make us happy or create the life we want for us. There’s nobody else we can blame, not our parents, not society and not that girl who broke my heart in 8th grade.

It’s our own responsibility to make sure that our life is worth living. It’s our responsibility to take care of our happiness.

Happiness is always there with us in the moment. We just have to make the shift and choose to see it. When you’re at the very beginning of the journey to creating a life you love, things can get overwhelming pretty quickly.

Here are simple 7 habits which you can adopt in pursuit of happiness

1. Identify what you want & focus on it. But , yoor goals should not create anxiety within you.

2. Engross yourself in something that moves you i.e. your area of focus.

3. Protect your dream.

4. Put the best time of your day where you have maximum interests.

5. Check your progress but stop doing comparison with others achievements.

6. Maintain a purpose and have flexibility to adopt. Sometimes a small mind shift, one little realization can make all the difference.

7. Help others because happiness begets happiness

You need to to appreciate the journey first so you can later appreciate your successes. I see life as one big experiment on happiness.

In summary, happy people are more likely to be successful. Don't allow your goal to do systematic harm to your joy.

Follow these simple tips and make your everyday bright. Click the link to know more on importance of good habits.

7 Success Mantras For You

Studies show that people who believe that their skills and abilities can GROW not only succeed more, but they also Enjoy their work more, cope more EFFECTIVELY with challenges, and experience LESS anxiety and depression.

Golden Rules for Career Success

7 tips on how to be happy while being alone

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" - Audrey Hepburn

Few days before Anamika asked me "Dada !How do you spend time? Don't you feel bore & dull?'

It was an interesting question because  I never thought about it.  I started thinking "Am I really lonely or alone? " 

I discovered that I’ve created a life with a lot of alone time and that's why I never failed bore. People may think I am introvert or living in silo because I don't engage myself in social gatherings often.

Here I will share you why being alone is not bad and what you can learn from this state. Actually, myself & my wife is alone mostly by our choice and it's NOT imposed upon us.
 

 A Video on How to be alone and be happy

Here are 7 secrets to being happy alone 

1. Loneliness helps me to create a space where creativity starts because it partially liberates us from the constraints of a social circle which needs and demands more time of us.

2. I learn to enjoy the silence which is really a beautiful.You can learn a lot about yourself in the moments when you’re least occupied—the times when there is nothing to distract you from the thoughts and feelings you deny yourself during your busy days.

3. I able to talk with myself & listen my inner voice . Respecting & listening inner voice is very important.

4.  I get opportunity to relax myself as I have good control of my time.

5. I  am free to use the money the way I want. 

6. Most important point is being alone is NOT the same as being lonely.Whenever I feel lonely, I go out and get around people and even try and assist those who might need my help.

7. I read a lot, play with my pet, write what I want to write. I have joined several online community to share my idea with other like minded people.

However, I must admit some kind of relationship must exist to avoid loneliness. And, you should know , when you are in relationship

"In every relationship, respect is earned, honesty is appreciated, trust is gained, and loyalty is returned"